5 Words Killing Your Church Culture – And How to Replace Them for Growth

The words you use shape the culture you lead. In this episode of Conversations, we unpack 5 common words and phrases that quietly kill church culture—and what to say instead. If you’ve ever said, “We need you,” or caught yourself thinking, “I’ll just do it,” this episode is for you.

Learn how language impacts leadership development, volunteer engagement, and your team’s ability to grow and thrive. We’ll walk through practical mindset shifts and give you simple replacements that promote ownership, empowerment, and innovation in your ministry.

Whether you're a pastor, team lead, or just passionate about healthy church culture, this conversation will give you real tools to lead better and build stronger teams.

In This Episode:

• Why “we need you” creates burnout, not buy-in

• How “help” minimizes contribution

• The problem with calling someone “just a volunteer”

• The subtle danger of “we’ve always done it this way”

• Why “I’ll just do it” blocks leadership development

Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction: What’s Killing Your Culture?
00:11 – The Power of Words in Shaping Culture
01:23 – The Dangers of “Need”
04:56 – The Problem with “Help”
07:52 – You’re More Than Just a Volunteer
11:38 – Breaking the “We’ve Always Done It This Way” Mentality
14:52 – The Control Hidden in “I’ll Just Do It”
16:37 – Changing Your Vocabulary to Change Culture

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